So while my heart is going, “he is fantastic, he is nice, he is gorgeous, and he is perfect”, my brain is going “He is not that great looking, his face is not perfect, he was not that nice to that guy the other day, he snores how can I spend the night, he wants me to wear skirts… In the end, the decision to take the plunge results from a bargain struck by both my heart and my mind.
As I thought about what I read, it occurred to me that I finally understood why I have never, and will probably never fall in love.
For some falling in Love makes them feel alive and it is something they enjoy and crave, for others loving someone is just as refreshing and for them the lack of drama is just fine.
So yes I think some of us are unable to fall in Love, and I am one of them.
Those people who can create these illusions in the minds of others, are people whom rarely sleep alone at night, and whom are the most skilled in the art of seduction, and in making people fall in love with them.
But then there are those of us who see people for whom they are, flaws and all.