We often find ourselves going back and forth trying to take longer to reply to messages than the person we’re talking to.This fits into the whole idea of playing hard to get and we feel like it puts us in a position of power.So focus on actually becoming all of those things and not just living it for one night. In the comments below I’d love to hear all of the games you often find yourself playing or being involved in!Like John Travolta’s character Danny Zuko in Grease, the men of today (and yesteryear) all labour through the trials of dating under the misguided notion that “playing it cool” gets the girl. Well, if the dating game today is anything to go by, then apparently we do.
However, if someone is not interested, you should have noticed an extreme change in their behaviour.They’ll take you to a really expensive bar or restaurant, pay for the all your cocktails and then tip the staff more than they ever would if they were just with friends. The answer is simple: because they want to impress you!Little do they know that they will often pay the price for this later in the relationship!They won’t call you or even return your calls, and to be honest, you should really have spotted that something is wrong at this stage.If you’ve tried to arrange a date, but it has been cancelled, the person playing hard to get will have a genuine reason for not showing up.